why do I need healing? Because I am exposed to new situations, and I approach them differently. I am focusing on my mental freedom. People typically would call this being selfish. I dislike that term. It sounds negative. Mental freedom is like financial freedom to me. People who are not on that journey do not understand. I want financial independence to be free to use my time as I see fit. To make the most of my freedom, I am noticing that I need mental freedom. What is the point of having options if you choose the one that someone else chose for you?